I want to say that I am sick to my stomach watching tonight's episode of Wife Swap. It's the one with the Wiccan High Priestess. Frankly, I'm not sure what to be more disgusted about - the initial portrayal of the Wiccan family, or the insanity of the Normal (for lack of a better word) family.
This is going to ramble a bit, but here are some of my thoughts on this show.
First, the subject of Wiccans. No, Wiccans do not worship Satan. No, we do not live in squalor. We do not believe the fairies will clean our homes. We do not all homeschool our children because they are "free spirits." Most of us don't proclaim our beliefs as loudly as this family. We also generally do not tattoo our foreheads, nor do we allow our children to vandalize the walls.
BUT - whatever disagreement I might have with the Wiccan on this show, she's completely right about the family roles of her "new" family. The "normal" family's mother is insane. I resent - no, I am DEEPLY offended - by her statement that the family is living in a "fantasy world." And YES, you most certainly CAN "make things happen with magic wands." I hope that was only a plain stick she broke in that scene, because if it was a real wand that would be akin to going into a Catholic's house and smashing a statue of the Blessed Virgin Mary. It is absolutely unacceptable to me that Mrs. Normal thought it was okay to just erase the family's religion. Can you imagine if they were devout Baptists and someone tried to do this? There would be utter uproar - if Disney-owned ABC had the balls to air it in the first place!
Normal Mom said, "it's not healthy for a man to live in this nutty Goddess world." I wanted to cry at that statement. If more men found the Goddess, the world would be a far better place.
Normal Mom said, "the kids need to be involved in more normal activities." While I do believe those kids need a better balance between the magickal and the mundane, again, I am offended by the idea that Wiccan beliefs/activities are "abnormal." They are not.
Wicca, the religion, does not present ANY "danger to a child's future." At least, not any more so than forcing children to go to a Christian church or be circumsized or baptized before they're old enough to consent. Having said that... I am a Wiccan, but also a teacher, and the homeschooled daughter definitely needs the "3 R's" in ADDITION to - but NOT instead of - her magickal studies.
I was impressed with how well-spoken the Wiccan children were. They appeared to be very smart, lateral thinkers. The Normal boy, on the other hand... Well, let's just say I doubt his future wife will be thanking his parents.
Most Wiccans would agree that trying to do any sort of magick or ritual on unwilling participants (like the Normal family) is at best a bad idea and at worst, inethical.
Anyway, by the end of the episode, I thought both families learned something. But I still think it's the Normal family that will eventually end up on Dr. Phil. Why? Because the Normals said what they thought people wanted to hear, but Wiccan Dad is very obviously a changed man.
EDIT: I didn't realize that ep was a rerun from March. Anyway,
here's what a much better blogger than I had to say about it.
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